Hey,
Last night I had a Ladies’ Night in the Container. (It’s a monthly event that we do, to catch up, chat about things..y’know, not gonna go into details because it’s top secret business.)
We spent a lot of the evening discussing romance and love as one of the topics.
Some of the girls were saying how they loved how a guy could be sweet and caring to them, understanding how they feel and being a comfort when they are needed.
Is it bad that I don’t expect a man to do this for me? I don’t get this concept at all.
I don’t know how to be affectionate. I feel awkward giving hugs to people, even my family sometimes, never mind a boy. I would catch cooties, heh.
This sounds awful, but I feel too capable and occupied with my own life to even make time for a relationship. If this is how I feel now, will this be worse in the future when I get a job?! I’m such a selfish cow.
I just don’t understand how couples can be just right for each other. Well, I do get that. I can’t grasp how I could be right for someone else.
I’m skeptical about the whole idea of love. I honestly think it’s because I don’t think it will happen to me! Forever alone.
Well these were the thoughts that were flying through my head while the rest were gushing about all these perfect romantic proposals. (They had moved on, while I still was detesting love in my thoughts)
Then this came into my head!!
Like everything else in my brain, I related it back to this drama I watched. Well it was IRIS, because it’s the only one I’ve fully seen so far. And this thought immediately restored and enlighten my belief in love and romance!!
I blurted this part of the drama out to the other three I was with, dumbly explaining it because it sounded disgusting. This didn’t make much sense to them at the time, but I think it’s idealistic but slightly unrealistic presentation of the two nearly made me cry. (It had made me cry before but I forgot how wonderful it was, it gave me butterflies because it’s soooo sweet.)
Let’s cut to the point. IRIS, although an action packed and exhilarating show, it also entwined the most beautiful romantic scenes I’ve ever seen on television or film.
I’ve made a short clip of the scene with my own subtitles (because the one I downloaded didn’t have any) but if you don’t want to watch it all, you can read the description below.)
So this part of the show is, Hyun Joon (the most gorgeous, old Korean guy you will ever set your eyes on) and Seung Hee (Hoe-Face) was in Akita in Japan on holiday. It was White Day, as they call it. (I think it’s something similar to Valentine’s Day) but the point is the man was to buy a present for the lady on that day.
So it begins with him entering a store to purchase something, leading Hoe Face to smile ridiculously thinking the present was for her. (Greedy girl)
She demands that he gives her the contents of the bag he had during dinner. Hyon Joon doesn’t understand what she wants (typical man, they are all the same) but it turns out he only bought a pair of underwear. (LOL typical man indeed.)
Seung Hee is miffed that he did not get her anything (COS SHE’S A HOE), not even candy for White Day. She refuses to talk to him, prompting him to leave the restaurant. (Honestly, she’s a terrible actress and you would slap her if you watched the whole series because I wanted to) She pouts, expecting him to come back, but he doesn’t.
She waits outside the restaurant, wondering if he’ll ever return. (They are in Japan, I don’t know how far he was thinking of going...)
Soon enough, he comes round the corner, STILL empty-handed.
Seung Hee is annoyed BUT then he grabs her face and kisses her. As he does, he puts a piece of chocolate in her mouth!
That might have been anti-climatic for y’all to read there, but when I was watching it, I was dying inside.
MY FAITH IN LOVE HAS BEEN RESTORED!
I know this is just acting between two people but it affected me much more than if a couple did this in real life. People who display public affection should be shot.
“You forgot underwear too?”
If you want to watch the real version which is bad quality but has real subtitles, click here and skip to 5:14.